Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it’s what you are expected to give — which is

Everything So what can one do to keep the romance in your life alive?  If you’d be loved, be worthy to be loved.

Here are some tips that will help to keep the love alive:

1)  Do little things in the course of a day such as leave notes, send gifts or gift

baskets, bring home flowers or call just to say you love each other.

2)  Make a date with each other. Schedule regular dates without the kids, if possible,

and make time for each other.

3)  Show affection by holding hands, cuddle, and kiss. This will keep your partner

happy and also sets a positive, healthy example for your children.

4)  Show your appreciation for each other every day.

5)  Keep the communication lines open and truly listen to your partner.

6)  Always give 100%.

The most romantic day is nearing – Valentine’s Day! It is a day to celebrate love and romance, and the bonds you have created with your loved one. As the day of love nears, plan to make it an unforgettable day and spark the love and romance in your life.

1)  Make your own Valentine’s Day card, write a poem or a sincere love letter.

2)  Book the honeymoon suite of a hotel and plan a night of romance.

3)  Plan a romantic getaway.

4)  Prepare a candlelight dinner and a  night of dancing.

5)  Watch a movie that has special meaning to both of you, such as the movie you saw on your first date.

6)  Propose all over again.

There are many ways that you can be romantic, but the most important is to say “I love you” on a frequent basis. Those three words go a long way.

So what does love have to do with it? Love has everything to do with your relationships and your life. Without love, our existence would be dark and dreary.

Doesn’t it feel wonderful to be loved?!

Love! We all need that warm, fuzzy, feeling we call love Love is a strong positive emotion of regard and affection, and love makes the world go around. This wonderful emotion makes us feel wanted and appreciated.

We have love for our family and children and the love for each is different and unique to each individual. This love is unchanging no matter what situation occurs or what these individuals do. This type of love is truly unconditional love – a love that will not leave us no matter what and a love that would make us jump off of cliffs for.

The love we feel for these individuals is different than the “shaking in the knees, heart fluttering” kind of love we may feel towards someone we are dating. Oh, the awesome feeling of first love and infatuation is one you will never forget! This type of love is romantic, intimate and sexual and this same type of love is felt between an engaged or married couple.

Yet this love can change and grow or it can change and deteriorate over time. It can be the most beautiful feeling and it can be the most heartbreaking.   It’s this romantic, intimate and sexual love between two individuals that must be worked at each and every day in order for it to endure the years.

When you and your partner are going somewhere special, get your camera, buy a new roll of film and wait for her to come out of the house.  When she appears, act like a professional photographer and go wild taking pictures of her with the flash. While you are taking photos, bombard her with questions as though she was a famous actress and you are trying to get a scoop for the magazine you represent.

Not only is this fun but you will also get some great photos to look back on together. Fill the trunk of your car with helium balloons. Drive to a romantic spot in the country to go for a walk. The ideal spot is somewhere up high with a clear view of the surrounding countryside.

Get out of the car and act as though you are about to set off for your walk. Make sure your partner is closer to the car than you and then throw her the keys and ask  if she can get your jacket from the trunk  while you tie your shoelace.  When she opens the boot the balloons will be released. You can also place a sign saying, “I Love You” on the inside of the trunk so that it will be revealed when the trunk opens.

To love someone is to isolate him from the world,  W ipe out every trace of him, Dispossess him of his shadow, Drag him into a murderous future.

It is to circle around the other like a dead star  and absorb him into a black light.

Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful;  it is not arrogant or rude.

Love does not insist on its own way;  it is not irritable or resentful;

It does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right.

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Real love is a pilgrimage. It happens when there is no strategy,

But it is very rare because most people are strategists.

In her first passion woman loves her lover,

In all the others all she loves is love

Experience shows us that love does not  consist in gazing at each other but in looking

together in the same direction.  Love itself is what is left over

when being in love has burned away

What is Love?  Do any of us really know?  Of Course we do!  Most of us use that word many times each day.  But it seems to have almost as many meanings as there are people using the word.  From a hristian perspective, however, there are only two real categories of Love.  God love and human love.

God Love, agape love is always unconditional.  It is one-sided in that it doesn’t have to be returned in order to be kept alive, or to be kept being initiated (I will love you no matter what you do to me).

Human love is conditional.  It is based on what we think, feel and desire.  It is based on some particular circumstances, and it is based on the other person’s response to you.

Human love is two-sided, because it must be returned in order to be kept alive. God Love is a freeing love, because it frees the lover from expectations and presumptions.

Human love is a bondage love because it puts the lover in the bondage of expectations, and also forces the one loved to respond from his or her defenses and not the heart.

God love is other centered love, because it puts the other’s interests before it’s own.  Human love is always self-centered because it always puts itself above everyone else even though the lover may not be aware of it.

Love is a unprecedented feeling where you try to solve the mystry but actually it minister your life.

The world remembers God as the ultimate source of love, the Ocean of Love, the Eternal Flame. God gives – unconditionally – love that is imperishable, universal, and unique. Imperishable in that the love is unlimited, constantly radiating, and totally available. Universal in that the love holds no boundaries or preferences; loving vibrations emanate to all souls of all cultures, races, and creeds. Unique in that the fire of God’s love cleans the heart and soul. Those who tap into such love re-establish the bond of an eternal relationship. Those who experience the spiritual love of God – who “merge with the Eternal Flame of Truth” – are disconnected from falsehood. Such souls have learned the first lesson of universal brotherhood: that all souls have love for one another because they are children of the same Parent. That is called spiritual love.

When the fire of spiritual love has been ignited, individuals begin exercising the will power to set themselves free from bondages of short-lived gratification. Time is invested and effort is made to build an internal stage in which love is revealed on the face and in every activity. With the enlightenment of spiritual love, individuals are less disturbed by adverse circumstances They view dark clouds and storms as opportunities to exercise their internal strength and resources. If others do not give them love, that does not extinguish their flame. They overcome thoughts which may direct them to step away

from a particular person, place, or task. Instead, there is the faith that with effort, they will make a significant and beneficial difference. The more effort is made to love, the more love is received. The spark of effort is love, and true love for effort means to remove whatever weaknesses stand in the way of love.

An entire world can be transformed through loving vision, loving attitude, and loving actions. To create a better world – a world of truth – spiritual love is primary. In a better world, the natural law is love; and in a better person, the  natural nature is loving.

Love is the principle which creates and sustains human relations with dignity and depth. Spiritual love takes one into silence, and that silence has the power to unite, guide, and free people. Love is the bedrock for the belief in equality of spirit and personhood. When love is combined with faith, that creates a strong foundation for initiative and action. Love is the catalyst for change, development, and achievement.

Love is not simply a desire, a passion, an intense feeling for one person or object, but a consciousness which is simultaneously selfless and self-fulfilling. Love can be for one’s country, for a cherished aim, for truth, for justice, for ethics, for people, for nature, for service, or for God. Love flows from truth, that is, wisdom. Love based on wisdom is real love, not blind love; and to discover the secrets of love is to watch the secrets of life unfold.

The basis of real love between people is spiritual. To see another as a spiritual being, a soul, is to see the spiritual reality of the other. To be conscious of that reality is to have spiritual love: each person, complete within, independent yet totally interconnected, recognizes that state in the other. As a result, there is constant and natural love. True love is when the soul has love for the soul. Love for the soul is eternal; the soul never dies. Such love is righteous, and it brings joy. Attachment to that which is perishable is unrighteous, and it brings sorrow.

When spiritual love prevails, neither internal nor external animosity, hatred, anger, or jealousy are possible. Negative feelings are transformed into positive feelings with the coolness of love. In spiritual love there is harmony, since love removes controlling or codependent tendencies and ensures kindness, caring, and amicable understanding